Unlike Malika, Marilyn never told her friend what went down. Three weeks later, Amanda and her boyfriend were back together. Darcy says that not telling a friend can be detrimental.
Which means they may do it again. And keeping it to yourself can have a dire consequences on your friendship, Dr. Personal Space is Bravo's home for all things "relationships," from romance to friendships to family to co-workers. Ready for a commitment?
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No one wants to be made out to look like a scumbag and no one wants to be portrayed as a bad friend. Sex is all-powerful, and turning it down is very, very difficult to do.
If a girl shows interest in hooking up with a guy, that guy is more than likely going to seize that opportunity. If he finds out about it, he will more than likely hate your fucking guts and his friend for the rest of time.
Dec 2, One woman hooked up with her best friend's boyfriend. Apr 18, While she and I were friends, we weren’t particularly close or best friends. She had promised us that she would introduce us all to him whenever he came to visit. All this while, I knew her boyfriend’s name but I had never seen a picture of him and I never even asked to see it.
And you can keep the fact that the two of you are hooking up a secret from your ex fairly easily. Hook up with this guy.
Hook up with as many guys as you want. Idk if your advice to this girl necessarily falls into the latter part of that. Shoot your shot, shooter.
It kind of created a rift in their friend group that no one talked about but it was very clear that their friend group resented me and blamed me which only caused more tension. Another weird side effect is that when I did hang out w them and we were all drinking there were multiple occasions where one of them, despite making it clear that they did not like me, would be privately flirty or inappropriate as if they assumed I would just dick hop their friend group. It was all very weird and confusing and a constant pain point in an otherwise lovely relationship.
You don't just walk in on your boyfriend and his friend in an awkward situation and immediately jump to assuming they're secret gay lovers. I agree that LW needs to break up with her boyfriend, but I also agree with Wendy that it would be crueler to tell him. She needs to leave him if she decides not to tell him what happenend. I recommend you let him go. Who can live like that? You could be waiting around for a long time for this relationship to end, if it ever does.
I remember a girl who did this to two of my friends while the one went away to study abroad. They had a huge falling out that theyre just now getting over. And this girl did dick hop within the friend group while with the second guy. Archive Advertise with us.